Thank you for sharing this and being so open and vulnerable. Always we carry this grief, and sometimes I feel like the hardest thing is you get the consolation, the understanding in the early days of loss, and then the world moves on, and yet you are left with this thing that is still so raw, so devastating, so all-consuming. And the sense of a loss of control - I am battling with that a lot at the moment. So much love to you as you continue trying to navigate this new world 💔❤️
Thank you so much for reading and for your kind words! I couldn't agree more, there really is nothing anyone can say that will "make it better" but you're still left having to continue on with nothing to steady you. Really only having these conversations and being able to talk about it allows me to process it, so despite grief feeling like a club that everyone wants out of, it is a comfort to have people to talk about it with who can relate. Likewise, sending you all the love always! ❤️
Thanks for sharing your thoughts on grief. I’m still understanding my grief, 3 years on and I still regret the amount of travelling I did back in 2019 when I should have spent that time with my Nan. I have no answers, only love. ❤️
Thank you so for reading and for empathising. I couldn't agree more, we'll never get away from wanting more time. And you put so perfectly what I feel like I am never able to say, which is that there are no answers, really! Only love. Sending it to you always! ❤️❤️❤️
Thank you for sharing this and being so open and vulnerable. Always we carry this grief, and sometimes I feel like the hardest thing is you get the consolation, the understanding in the early days of loss, and then the world moves on, and yet you are left with this thing that is still so raw, so devastating, so all-consuming. And the sense of a loss of control - I am battling with that a lot at the moment. So much love to you as you continue trying to navigate this new world 💔❤️
Thank you so much for reading and for your kind words! I couldn't agree more, there really is nothing anyone can say that will "make it better" but you're still left having to continue on with nothing to steady you. Really only having these conversations and being able to talk about it allows me to process it, so despite grief feeling like a club that everyone wants out of, it is a comfort to have people to talk about it with who can relate. Likewise, sending you all the love always! ❤️
Thanks for sharing your thoughts on grief. I’m still understanding my grief, 3 years on and I still regret the amount of travelling I did back in 2019 when I should have spent that time with my Nan. I have no answers, only love. ❤️
Thank you so for reading and for empathising. I couldn't agree more, we'll never get away from wanting more time. And you put so perfectly what I feel like I am never able to say, which is that there are no answers, really! Only love. Sending it to you always! ❤️❤️❤️
One of my favourite poems is by Lemn Sissay and it always reminds me to take things day by day:
“How do you do it?” said night.
“How do you wake and shine?”
“I keep it simple,” said light.
“One day at a time.”
You're moving forward every day <3